Kujton \u00e7do detaj t\u00eb 15 or\u00ebve ku ajo bashk\u00eb me djalin e saj u keqtrajtuan n\u00eb format m\u00eb mizore. Jo rrall\u00eb i kthehet makthi i para 25 vitesh, ku m\u00ebngjesin e nj\u00eb dit\u00eb pranvere u morr nga forcat serbe dhe u dhunua seksualisht n\u00eb nj\u00eb stacion policor.<\/p>\n
Ajo po punonte si infermiere dhe ishte nisur p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebrguar veshmbathje dhe medikamente medicinale p\u00ebr ushtar\u00ebt e U\u00c7K-s\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Pas aktit makab\u00ebr, ajo kishte tentuar t\u2019i jap fund jet\u00ebs. Q\u00eb nga ajo koh\u00eb po p\u00ebrballet me sh\u00ebndet t\u00eb lig\u00eb, s\u00eb voni \u00ebsht\u00eb operuar p\u00ebr heqjen e kancerit n\u00eb gji. Nj\u00eb jet\u00eb plot vuajtje e me kushte jo t\u00eb mira, megjithat\u00eb si\u00e7 tregon, detyrohet t\u00eb gjitha shpenzimet t\u2019i mbuloj\u00eb vet.<\/p>\n
Emri Af\u00ebrdit\u00eb, viktim\u00ebs i \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb nga redaksia, me q\u00ebllim t\u00eb mbrojtjes s\u00eb identitetit t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n
M\u00ebngjesin e asaj dite, ajo tregon se do ta kujtoj\u00eb derisa t\u00eb hyj n\u00eb varr. Dita q\u00eb ia ndryshoi jet\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb, po e p\u00ebrcjell n\u00eb \u00e7do hap q\u00eb hedh.<\/p>\n
\u201cNj\u00eb tragjedi e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb e paharrueshme derisa t\u00eb hyj n\u00ebn d\u00ebrrasa, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr mua e paharrueshme. Kam qen\u00eb duke sh\u00ebrbyer n\u00eb Ushtrin\u00eb \u00c7lirimtare t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, p\u00ebrndryshe kam qen\u00eb edhe si infermiere duke ju d\u00ebrguar veshmbathje edhe disa medikamente medicinale. Kam hasur n\u00eb polic\u00eb, kam qen\u00eb me djalin. Kemi filluar t\u00eb zbresim prej autobusit, na kan\u00eb ardhur policia mbrapa dhe na kan\u00eb thirr n\u00eb gjuh\u00ebn e tyre serbo-kroate n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vrazhd\u00eb, na i kan\u00eb shar\u00eb n\u00ebnat shqiptare, aq vrazhd\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb folur. Na kan\u00eb marr\u00eb edhe na kan\u00eb d\u00ebrguar n\u00eb stacion policor prej or\u00ebs 10 t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit deri n\u00eb or\u00ebn 01:00 (t\u00eb nat\u00ebs). Maltretime, fyerje me fjal\u00eb, mandej ka ardhur edhe deri te dhunimi. Kam rezistuar sa kam mundur derisa jam dor\u00ebzuar. E kan\u00eb dhunuar djalin, m\u00eb kan\u00eb dhunuar kat\u00ebr persona aty n\u00eb prezenc\u00ebn e djalit\u201d, rr\u00ebfen gruaja mbi t\u00eb 60-tat.<\/p>\n
Duke folur p\u00ebr momentin e r\u00ebnd\u00eb, ajo kujton fytyr\u00ebn e secilit kriminel serb\u00eb, q\u00eb p\u00ebrkund\u00ebr rezistenc\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, e maltretuan dhe e keqtrajtuan n\u00eb format m\u00eb \u00e7njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n
\u201cMi kan\u00eb thyer dy dh\u00ebmb\u00eb, ma kan\u00eb shky veshin, m\u00eb kan\u00eb kafshuar n\u00eb gjoks. Ka ora 10:00 ka ardhur ai polici i cili na ka \u00e7uar atje, m\u00eb ka pyet tha \u2018hala k\u00ebtu\u2019. I thash \u2018po ti je ai i cili na prune pa pik\u00eb arsye\u2019. Tha \u2018jo arsye kom pasur t\u00eb plot, por \u00e7far\u00eb po jep ti p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebshuar\u2019. I thash \u2018Nj\u00eb mij\u00eb marka\u2019, ai tha \u2018jo marka e ari kemi boll, kemi marr\u00eb prej shqiptar\u00ebve, k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb tjet\u00ebr gj\u00eb\u2019, i thash \u2018at\u00eb pa ma marr shpirtin kush nuk mundet\u2019. Edhe ka shkuar ai dhe ka filluar dhunimi. I pari, i dyti, i treti, i kat\u00ebrti, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb vrazhd\u00eb, shtazarake derisa nj\u00eb cop\u00eb e gjirit m\u00eb ka munguar aty\u201d, shton ajo m\u00eb tej.<\/p>\n
Nuk u mjaftuan me kaq, madje tentuan q\u00eb ta detyronin nj\u00eb shqiptar p\u00ebr ta dhunuar Af\u00ebrdit\u00ebn. I nj\u00ebjti kishte rezistuar, duke mos pranuar n\u00eb asnj\u00eb form\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u201cM\u00eb kan\u00eb l\u00ebshuar n\u00eb or\u00ebn 01:00, kam vendosur nj\u00eb her\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb me i dh\u00ebn\u00eb fund jet\u00ebs. Djalin e kam k\u00ebshilluar \u2018t\u00eb lutem bir, merre jet\u00ebn p\u00ebrpara, ti je i ri, vazhdon jeta p\u00ebrpara. Nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi si ta shikosh t\u00eb hapur bir mbroju\u2019. Ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u2018jo n\u00ebn\u00eb, ti e vdekur, un\u00eb i vdekur, ti e gjall\u00eb, un\u00eb i gjall\u00eb\u2019. Un\u00eb jam hedhur p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kerri t\u00eb policis\u00eb duke kaluar aty pari duke na p\u00ebrcjellur. Dhe m\u00eb kan\u00eb ngrehur m\u00eb kan\u00eb d\u00ebrguar pran\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpie p\u00ebrs\u00ebri. Kan\u00eb tentuar dhunimin, mir\u00ebpo kur m\u00eb kan\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb mjerueshme jam, kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb \u2018nuk paska \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb njeriu prej saj\u2019. Kemi shkuar zhag prej aty n\u00eb ora 1 t\u00eb nat\u00ebs te nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi\u201d, tregon ajo.<\/p>\n
Klithmat e saj dhe t\u00eb djalit, si\u00e7 rr\u00ebfen ajo, i kishte d\u00ebgjuar nj\u00eb grua e cila ju dali n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb me veshmbathje dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb pastruar gjakun q\u00eb kishte mbuluar trupat e tyre. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje, ata ishin nisur p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 bashk\u00ebshortit, ajo nuk mori guximin t\u2019i tregoj\u00eb dikujt tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n
Mes lot\u00ebve flet p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e saj q\u00eb nga viti 99, p\u00ebr \u00e7ka thot\u00eb se nuk g\u00ebzoi m\u00eb asnj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u201cJeta ime aty ka p\u00ebrfunduar, k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia ime aty e ka p\u00ebrfunduar, dielli p\u00ebr mua nuk ka shk\u00eblqyer m\u00eb. Dasm\u00eb p\u00ebr mua nuk ka pasur, bajram p\u00ebr mua nuk ka pasur. P\u00ebr mua vet\u00ebm terr e zi. Dy persona n\u00ebse i kam par\u00eb bashk\u00eb kam th\u00ebn\u00eb \u2018kuku p\u00ebr mua po flasin, kuku ja morra djalit fytyr\u00ebn, kuku ja hupa djalit karrier\u00ebn, kurr\u00eb ky person nuk do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet njeri kur t\u2019i kujtohet rasti i n\u00ebn\u00ebs\u2019. Nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb e kam kaluar edhe po e kaloj\u201d, thot\u00eb ajo.<\/p>\n
Jeta pas luft\u00ebs i kujton v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore e financiare, por thot\u00eb se pengun m\u00eb t\u00eb madh kishte \u201cmoralin\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u201cPas kafshimit t\u00eb gjoksit, mua vet\u00ebm m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb paraqitur nj\u00eb gj\u00ebnd\u00ebr n\u00ebn sqetull,. Kam b\u00ebr\u00eb kontrolle m\u00eb pati dal\u00eb gj\u00ebnd\u00ebr dhjamore. Derisa erdhi tek k\u00ebrc\u00ebnoma. Jam operuar n\u00eb spital privat, vizitat i b\u00ebj\u00eb n\u00eb spital privat, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb prej shtetit deri m\u00eb tash nuk kemi asnj\u00eb kartel\u00eb\u2026 Po jetoj me k\u00ebt\u00eb breng\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore, un\u00eb bi, qohem dhe them \u2018inshAllah nuk b\u00ebhet drit\u00eb me pas kontakt me njer\u00ebz\u201d, thekson ajo.<\/p>\n
Af\u00ebrdita nuk g\u00ebzon pensionin kontribut dh\u00ebn\u00ebs e as t\u00eb pleq\u00ebris\u00eb, por vet\u00ebm pensionin si viktim\u00eb e dhun\u00ebs seksuale.<\/p>\n
Feride Rushiti, e cila udh\u00ebheq Qendr\u00ebn Kosovare p\u00ebr Rehabilitimin e t\u00eb Mbijetuarve t\u00eb Tortur\u00ebs (QKRMT) thot\u00eb se t\u00eb mbijetuarit nuk po g\u00ebzojn\u00eb t\u00eb drejtat e garantuara me ligj.<\/p>\n
\u201cNj\u00eb num\u00ebr i madh i vajzave, grave, por edhe burrave t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kan\u00eb bartur k\u00ebt\u00eb krim bartin me vete plag\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme shpirt\u00ebrore por edhe fizike, kan\u00eb zhvilluar edhe s\u00ebmundje dhe si t\u00eb till\u00eb meritojn\u00eb por \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe e drejt\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb trajtohen falas nga institucionet sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs. Po ashtu, sfid\u00eb tjet\u00ebr paraqet edhe mos-kartelizimi i t\u00eb mbijetuarve me nj\u00eb kartel\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, ashtu si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb parapar\u00eb n\u00eb momentin kur \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar mekanizmi i njohjes ligjore t\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetuarve seksuale. Si munges\u00eb i kartelizimit, ku nuk i del n\u00eb pah identiteti i t\u00eb mbijetuarit, t\u00eb mbijetuarit nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje n\u00eb nivel lokal p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar t\u00eb drejtat q\u00eb ju takojn\u00eb me ligj. Aktualisht ato p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm pensionin\u201d, deklaron Rushiti.<\/p>\n
Selvi Izeti e cila punon m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 15 vjet me t\u00eb mbijetuarit e dhun\u00ebs seksuale thot\u00eb se grat\u00eb e burrat kan\u00eb nevoja t\u00eb theksuara p\u00ebr sh\u00ebrbime sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore.<\/p>\n
\u201cP\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb traum\u00ebs s\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs dhe q\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb traum\u00eb e kan\u00eb mbajtur t\u00eb fshehur, qoft\u00eb nga familjar\u00ebt, qoft\u00eb nga komuniteti, trauma pa dyshim q\u00eb e ka afektuar sh\u00ebndetin fizik dhe sh\u00ebndetin psikologjik t\u00eb tyre. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ne n\u00eb organizat\u00eb ofrojm\u00eb sh\u00ebrbime t\u00eb ndryshme, duke filluar nga rehabilitimi psikologjik q\u00eb fillon me terapin\u00eb individuale dhe terapin\u00eb grupore, \u00ebsht\u00eb sh\u00ebrbimi mjek\u00ebsor, psikiatrik dhe fizioterapia q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me traum\u00ebn q\u00eb e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar p\u00ebr menaxhimin e dhimbjes\u2026Nd\u00ebr nevojat urgjente \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetuarit e dhun\u00ebs seksuale t\u00eb ken\u00eb qasje n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbimet institucionale, publike, sikur kategorit\u00eb tjera t\u00eb dala nga lufta\u201d, p\u00ebrfundon Izeti.<\/p>\n
Ajo shton se ligji \u00ebsht\u00eb diskriminues p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb kategori t\u00eb luft\u00ebs dhe se nuk po i g\u00ebzojn\u00eb t\u00eb drejtat e tyre.<\/p>\n
14 prilli sh\u00ebnon dit\u00ebn memoriale t\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetuarve t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs seksuale gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs s\u00eb fundit n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Aktualisht jan\u00eb gjasht\u00eb aktakuza t\u00eb ngritura p\u00ebr dhunime seksuale gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs s\u00eb fundit n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Deri m\u00eb tani jan\u00eb rreth 2100 raste t\u00eb cilat kan\u00eb aplikuar n\u00eb komision dhe rreth 1600 prej tyre q\u00eb e g\u00ebzojn\u00eb pensionin personal si te mbijetuar t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs seksuale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Flen me lutjen q\u00eb t\u00eb mos zgjohet t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen. Thot\u00eb se p\u00ebr t\u00eb dielli m\u00eb nuk rrezoi kurr\u00eb. Q\u00eb nga lufta po jeton me shenjat n\u00eb trup t\u00eb kriminel\u00ebve serb\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ia shuan rinin\u00eb. Kujton \u00e7do detaj t\u00eb 15 or\u00ebve ku ajo bashk\u00eb me djalin e saj u keqtrajtuan n\u00eb format m\u00eb mizore. Jo […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":56270,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n