T\u00eb gjith\u00ebve na theu zemr\u00ebn vdekja e djalit t\u00eb ri, Triumf F. Feratit. Nuk ishte vdekje e natyrshme. Ishte vet\u00ebvrasje tejet e dhembshme. Por, askush as edhe nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvrasjen. Asnj\u00eb medium informativ nuk e tha se Triumfi ka b\u00ebr\u00eb vet\u00ebvrasje. Nuk u pa as n\u00eb rrjetet sociale t\u00eb flitej p\u00ebr plag\u00ebn q\u00eb me kaq disiplin\u00eb e fshehim. As postmortum nuk shkruan njeri, pos vajtime e dhembje. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb ikin nga kjo tem\u00eb, pos nj\u00eb hoxh\u00eb i nderuar, i cili guximsh\u00ebm preku tabut\u00eb tona. Guximsh\u00ebm dridhi bot\u00ebn ton\u00eb arkaike, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn fshehim pafuqin\u00eb ton\u00eb dhe munges\u00ebn e guximit p\u00ebr tu p\u00ebrballur me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn \u2013 me jet\u00ebn!<\/p>\n
Hoxha e b\u00ebri edhe nj\u00eb vep\u00ebr humane, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk po e b\u00ebjn\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm as prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Ai iu drejtua t\u00eb rinjve q\u00eb t\u00eb flasin hapur. T\u00eb rr\u00ebfejn\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb i mundon, sepse \u201c\u00e7do problem ka zgjidhje, vet\u00ebm vdekja nuk ka zgjidhje\u201d \u2013 tha hoxha i mir\u00eb, i sinqert\u00eb dhe i guximsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
BOTA JON\u00cb E MBYLLUR<\/p>\n
Q\u00eb nga e kaluara e larg\u00ebt kemi trash\u00ebguar shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme. Nd\u00ebr to edhe bot\u00ebn e mbyllur, bashk\u00eb me t\u00eb path\u00ebnat tona t\u00eb ngujuara. E mbyllura \u00ebsht\u00eb gjysm\u00eb e gjall\u00eb dhe gjysm\u00eb e vdekur. E mbyllura \u00ebsht\u00eb e panjohur dhe si e till\u00eb ajo di t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe e d\u00ebmshme. N\u00eb raste t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta e mbyllura di t\u00eb vret, si\u00e7 vrau Triumfin e mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n
F\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb nuk e meritojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb trash\u00ebgimi. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb edukohen ndryshe nga ne. N\u00eb fakt, ata jan\u00eb duke jetuar n\u00eb globaliz\u00ebm, ku fuqia dhe shpejt\u00ebsia e komunikimit jan\u00eb ABC-ja e jet\u00ebs. P\u00ebrfytyrojeni nj\u00eb t\u00eb ri, i cili p\u00ebr pak minuta \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb komunikoj\u00eb hapur me njer\u00ebz, n\u00eb t\u00eb kat\u00ebr kontinentet, por asnj\u00ebher\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit e tij, me t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e tij ose me miqt\u00eb e tij, sepse ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb rr\u00ebfehet p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb brendshme, p\u00ebr defektet eventuale shpirt\u00ebrore apo t\u00eb personalitetit.<\/p>\n
Nuk lindin t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit me karakter e vullnet t\u00eb fort\u00eb. Ka t\u00eb till\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb komunikojn\u00eb e q\u00eb pastaj p\u00ebrmes komunikimit t\u2019i p\u00ebmbushin nevojat e tyre t\u00eb brendshme. Dhe, askush m\u00eb mir\u00eb se prind\u00ebrit nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje ta \u00e7el bot\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr komunikim.<\/p>\n
Rr\u00ebfimi sh\u00ebron, sepse p\u00ebrmes tij bota e mbyllur fiton frym\u00eb t\u00eb re e vet\u00ebbesim t\u00eb madh, k\u00ebt\u00eb element qen\u00ebsor t\u00eb zhvillimit normal t\u00eb personalitetit t\u00eb njeriut. P\u00ebrmes rr\u00ebfimit arrihet t\u00eb zgjidhet nyja, e cila shpeshher\u00eb lidhet keq brenda personalitetit t\u00eb njeriut.<\/p>\n
Kurr\u00eb nuk i dihet, nj\u00eb bised\u00eb e hapur mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet shkak i nj\u00eb zgjidhjeje t\u00eb brendshme n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e trazuar t\u00eb t\u00eb rinjve. Kjo zgjidhje, pastaj b\u00ebhet zinxhir zgjidhjesh tjera, t\u00eb cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhura mes vete, mu si shkaku dhe pasoja. Ndoshta Triumfi sot do t\u00eb ishte n\u00eb mesin ton\u00eb sikur ai t\u00eb guxonte t\u00eb k\u00ebshillohej me cilindo an\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb familjes, psikiat\u00ebr a psikolog.<\/p>\n
S\u00cbMUNDJET NUK JAN\u00cb TURP<\/p>\n
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e turpshme n\u00ebse kemi nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje, qoft\u00eb trupore ose shpirt\u00ebrore. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb turp t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb n\u00ebse kemi depresione, ankthe, skizofreni, pengesa bipolore ose ngarkesa post-traumatike.<\/p>\n
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb turp t\u00eb rr\u00ebfehesh n\u00ebse e humb\u00eb besimin tek njer\u00ebzit dhe tek vetja, e si pasoj\u00eb fillon i frik\u00ebsohesh jet\u00ebs. Nga momenti q\u00eb e sheh jet\u00ebn t\u00eb si t\u00eb huaj, nga ai moment ke nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00ebn e prindit, v\u00ebllait, motr\u00ebs, shokut dhe psikiatrit.<\/p>\n
Q\u00eb t\u00eb mos kemi p\u00ebrfundime tragjike, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb drit\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb mbyllur, t\u00eb mbyllur shkaku i trash\u00ebgimis\u00eb s\u00eb keqe.<\/p>\n
Hapuni! Mjaft\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb guask\u00ebn mesjetare. Vet\u00ebm jeta e hapur ka kuptim, sepse kur kemi dal\u00eb prej barkut t\u00eb n\u00ebnave tona, kemi dal\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn plot drit\u00eb, hap\u00ebsir\u00eb dhe frym\u00eb. Prej asaj dite, s\u2019ka m\u00eb kuptim mbyllja dhe terri. Ka kuptim drita, hapja, komunikimi, dashuria dhe prosperiteti. Vdekjes nuk i b\u00ebhet von\u00eb.<\/p>\n
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Respekt p\u00ebr hoxh\u00ebn n\u00eb video. Past\u00eb faqen e bardh\u00eb!<\/p>\n